Summary
This article talks about domestic violence in the UK. The amount of domestic violence that resulted in death has increased and is at its highest its been in 5 years (Swann, 2019). When it comes to domestic violence most victims are women. One woman talked about was Charlotte Huggins. She was stabbed by her ex who was angry about seeing her with another man. Her trial and murder didn’t get much attention in the media. Swann claims that the fact domestic violence remains invisible, it is part of the issue regarding violence against women Swan, 2019). BBC News followed the first 100 killings of 2019 and around a 5th of the murders was including a significant other, family member or ex (Swann,2019). One of the victims was Alison, who was stabbed by her ex 22 times in front of her daughter. Swann claims the most shocking was a man who was married for 17 years who murders his wife in front of a babe they newly fostered. The man was a former police officer who then placed his wife in a suitcase and buried her in a shallow grave. After the case, the son of the two decided he wanted to try and help people in this situation. As referenced in the article, the son states “We want the government to fix our problems. But I think realistically, what we actually need to do is work collectively as a community to create better things.” (Swann, 2019) Basically the government ends up introducing a bill aimed at trying to tackle the problems of domestic violence.
Reflection
We are currently learning about family and marriage. With family and marriage, comes possibility for abuse. That includes domestic abuse or intimate partner violence. According to the book abuse comes in different forms, physical, verbal, psychological, financial and sexual (OpenStaxx, 2017). Having this article speak about domestic violence and how the amount of cases are rising is unsettling to me. The article talks about physically abusive relationships that resulted in death. This topic hits home for me because I just recently had an old classmate from high school get murdered from her former boyfriend. I also was in a relationship where i was both physically and verbally abused by my boyfriend. The article talked about how part of the problem is the fact cases are invisible and I agree. Victims are scared to speak up, victims are scared to leave, victims ignore or let the problem slide because they said sorry. The epidemic needs to change or the amount of DV is going to keep rising. Growing from an abusive relationship definitely shaped who I am and shapes how I interact with possible relationship partners.
https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-49459674
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